Who is PERFECT? Why does everyone want to be perfe

Who is PERFECT? Why does everyone want to be perfect? Why everyone needs a perfect person ? After all, how long will the beauty of the face be seen? When will this fair-dark color discrimination end? (Please do read the caption) I don't understand why there is a beautiful girl and a handsome boy in every story. Why a writer picturizes the main characters of a story as perfect person. For example- A girl will be shown as beautiful,tall,slim, fair complexion, big eyes,long hairs etc....and a boy will be shown as tall, handsome, smart, rich, fair..In any case the boy will be shown as worthy of the girl. They're presented as perfect couple for each other. Means what they want to convey is that to be in relationship you have to be perfect or to fall in love with someone you should be tall, slim, fair skin, etc. only then you will be a perfect couple.... Seriously?? No, I mean what they want to say that those girl who don't consider themselves as perfect or beautiful they don't have rights to fall in love with that guy who is rich and good looking? I am saying all this because I have read many stories and found the same thing in all of them. And I have also seen some of my friends who got married only because of beauty. Sometimes it seems that studies have no importance.Because appearance is given importance everywhere, no matter how much talent you have, no matter how much you have studied, if you are beautiful then you are given a different importance.I want to know why? why does everyone do this? And the white color has a different importance.A friend of mine was refused to work in a beauty parlor because she was not fair. No matter how many degrees you have, how much knowledge you have, how much experience you have, you are always discriminated against on the basis of your beauty.People say in such a way that you are fair, you are beautiful, then a line of boys will be set for you. And if there a beautiful, fair girl does a job then ... So one, you are so beautiful, fair, you do a job , so there is no need to worry about your marriage.And a girl whom people have not described as beautiful, it is told that if you study and become something, then you will have to worry a little less for your marriage.If the girl is beautiful and the boy looks good then it will be appreciated, but if the boy looks good and the girl looks a little less good than him, then it is said that the girl earns, so she got married.Meaning there can be no love between them, according to the people, marriage is done just for money, or because the girl does a job.Why do people find faults, even their close ones do not back down in finding faults? Will show the girl beautiful, perfect, beautiful even in stories, Or, to make the story interesting, the author will put a lot of problems in her marriage by showing the girl as dark. Seeing and hearing all this, the mind becomes sad, there is a lot to write, but the more I think about it, the more I get upset.I don't know what will happen in my life, how will it happen. The problem is most when you are not able to tell your words to anyone, you are afraid that they will laugh after hearing all this or if they make fun of you somewhere.Hope everything goes well in the future.

Shivani Gautam