Dear future husband, As I write this to you, I am blushing and grinning at the prospect of us spending the rest of our lives with each other. We’re about to take the plunge and go for the big M soon, but before we do, here are a few things I’d like to say to you. Before we get into the easier conversations about venues , catering, and attire , here is the slightly more difficult conversation I want to have with you. Here are a few things I’d like you to keep in mind before our big day. ..... I just want to tell you something... .. It is called life partner for a reason. We may complement each other in some aspects, but are equal in every right. ..... You mean the world to me, but my world does not revolve around you.