"Oh c'mon! Don't come to judge me in your own shoes." Aren't we ourselves judging the other side by saying this? I need some stimulations to run my thoughts and they are many. Coming to the context, yesterday I was reading my friends' impression diary while I came across a friend's writing saying, "Tui ektu plz onnoder jnno character certificate bar korata bondho korte paris" ( This particular expression in Bengali means: Can you please stop giving character certificates to others!). This was intentionally written and was very wisely scratched down, but my strong insight identified the expression. Now why